Wednesday, March 18, 2015

When The Light Goes Out

When The Light Goes Out
By Joeysguy



Lighting a candle helps me to see more

I see things I didn’t see before




Just little things that I couldn’t see

Some now have meaning to me




In the stillness of air, why does the flame flicker

It moves from side to side and looks bigger




I can feel the warmth of the candle and see it glow

As the wax melts the flame would grow




When day ends and night falls

The candles shadow is on the walls




I light the candles for my wife

Another way of honoring our life




My wife’s pictures would shimmer and shine

In my mind to me she is still mine




The candle flames can be very bright

To me the flame dances when I look at the light




That dancing light is what I see

I want to think that it’s dancing for me




I will be with my wife, I have no doubt

One day when the light goes out


Monday, October 13, 2014

Strength In Numbers

Strength In Numbers
By Joeysguy

A few years back I joined a group of strangers

I went there looking for answers


To join here was such a high cost

It was with a piece of my heart I had lost


That cost was my losing my wife

All these strangers here also lost someone from their life


Joining the group we all paid the dues

With a life of someone we did lose


Nobody thinks of being a member here

That first day can be hard to share


We fight our emotions most everyday

Our grief or tears can get in our way


Life has become different in many ways

Just to do something might take days


We all had come here with grief

Where here looking for some kind of relief


Even though we can be weak and cry

Time shows that we can get by


This is where some of us belong

Our time together helps to make us strong
 

Days End

Days End
By Joeysguy
Tomorrow will become a today

Today will become a yesterday

It feels like it was just a yesterday

Since my wife passed away

With my wife I had much more yesterday

I lost my wife, now I have less today
 
That day I also should have passed away

One of my today’s will be my last day

Every tomorrow brings me closer to an end of my life

With another day that goes by, I’ll be with my wife


Tuesday, September 30, 2014

Living With The Pain

Living With The Pain

By Joeysguy

On that day that my wife had died

One of my thoughts was suicide



The pain I had from losing my wife

To stop my pain I thought to end my life




I didn’t want to hear anyone explain

I just wanted to put an end to my pain




To take my life I felt no fear

I didn’t even think of who would care




Our dogs were waiting at the house

My fear was to go back home without my spouse




The pain of losing my kids mother and my wife

I had second thoughts as to taking my life




Losing their mother we all cried

They would have been devastated if I chose suicide




They may have thought that I loved them less

If I would have put an end to my pain and distress




With all my pain and sorrow

It’s hard to face an empty tomorrow




She has saved my life many times in bed

It’s also her who puts the poems into my head




Still watching over my life

My Angel, my wife


 


 

Sunday, July 27, 2014

Reflections

Reflections
By Joeysguy

When my kids were young they would run around

You always new where they were just by the sound




Someone would bring home a dog or a cat

One daughter even had a pet rat




With everything my wife was at my side

Until that horrible day that she died




I’m looking at a picture, that was our wedding day

I can’t remember all of the words we did say




This picture shows our marriage sealed with a kiss

My tears are a reminder, I will never again have this




With my wife gone and my kids grown

My dogs are gone and I live alone




I wish my wife walked through the door

So I could hold her and kiss her once more




In my house I’m always seeing a figure

It can look smaller but it’s never bigger




I see this figure in every room

It looks at me with the face of gloom




I’ve seen this figure just a short time in my life

Tell me figure are you my wife




The figure speaks and I know this voice

Figure your not my choice




The figure is in everything that has a shine

It’s a reflection that is always mine



 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Monday, July 14, 2014

With Pride

With Pride
By Joeysguy
It’s so dark in here, it must be night 
I see an opening, I can see some light

Why are these people pulling on me
I guess out there I should be

I’m upside down, you hit me and I cried
That hurt and left me teary-eyed

Who’s this lady you put me alongside
Who’s this man staring with so much pride

Are they someone that I should know
When they leave will I also go

This lady says her name is mom
She puts out her hands and wants me to come

The man is called dad 
They are so nice and never seem sad

Will this good feeling always last
Time has gone by and it seemed so fast

In the blink of an eye
I’ve learned what it is to cry

With little suffering and not much sound
Mom and dad are now in the ground

They said we are of one heart
Even in death we can never be apart

Now I look at this lady with our baby at her side
How beautiful, and I’m so full of pride

Sunday, June 22, 2014

Paper Rose

Paper Rose
By Joeysguy

Many years ago when I was short of money

Thinking of a gift to give my honey


Something inexpensive, like a single rose

With the meaning and feeling that it shows


Just a couple of dollars I think that would be okay                                                                          

As a gift from my heart for that day


In that single rose, that I bought                                                                      

With my love being the thought

    I have roses growing outside my house

In the memory and love to my spouse


From some of the thorns that are on the stems

My blood was drawn and looks like little gems


I need a rose that is so very light                                     

It has to be special for a flight


I can now give her this kind of a rose                                  

With all my love that it shows


The rose has to be without a thorn

So the balloon doesn’t burst while airborne


Higher and higher to my wife it goes                                                                              

A balloon that carries, a paper rose